San Francisco: One Year Later

San Francisco: One Year Later

One year ago today I drove over the San Francisco Bay Bridge in a bright yellow Penske truck and lost my breath. As the skyline came into view, I thought to myself: “this is my new home – amidst the skyscrapers – this is my city.

Two weeks prior to the 21-hour drive from Colorado to the West Coast, I created my reality. Many of you already know the romantic story of how I fell in love with San Francisco. I was so encapsulated by the pure essence and liveliness of the city; I couldn’t imagine living anywhere else. With a stroke of luck (and years of hard work), I landed the dreamiest of dream jobs – two weeks later, I embarked on the biggest journey of my lifetime.

I packed up all my belongings into cardboard boxes of memories and necessities. Through tearful hugs, I said goodbye to my best friends and family. Sadness and fear were overwhelmed with happiness and excitement.

Arriving in San Francisco was magical. I exploded with excitement as we pulled up to my new apartment building and began unloading the boxes from the truck. Hours were spent unpacking and decorating, throwing away and organizing.

Work started almost immediately, but I was more than prepared to begin learning and contributing to my new career.

Two weeks into my new life, I noticed some extreme lifestyle changes taking place. I was no longer driving my car everywhere, I wasn’t eating fast food, and I wasn’t bored doing the same thing every weekend. Instead, I was out exploring this new magical city, trying new restaurants, and adventuring to new places across the Bay Area.

I finally settled my issues with Comcast and before I knew it, I’d been in San Francisco for one whole month. Time

was flying and it had no intention of slowing down. After my one-month benchmark in the city, I discovered and began nurturing a new hobby: photography. I desired to capture my experiences in the city with more than just words – through images. And I kicked butt in my first photoblog-off.

And I participated in one of the most incredible photography and story-telling projects ever – I Live Here:SF.

In the middle of August, my stepmom threw all reservations to the wind and swam in the Alcatraz Swim from

Alcatraz Island to the shore near Ghirardelli Square. It was wonderful to see her accomplish something so great (and not get eaten by a shark) and also to show off my new life in the city of my dreams.

I endured the adventures of LovEvolution, Bay to Breakers and Pride. And I drank copious amounts of wine in Sonoma.

And then I dropped my phone down an elevator shaft.

I flew back to Colorado several times over the past year. A lot of big things were happening right at the same time my new life was picking up. I threw my best friend a perfect bachelorette party, she got married, and gave birth to a beautiful little girl named Ashlynn. My mom sold our childhood house. I would be lying if I said it wasn’t difficult to be away from all the events that were taking place in my old home.

But, it helped me grow. After the “honeymoon stage” of moving out to San Francisco, I went through a rough patch. I was extraordinarily lonely – I was working so hard and exploring every weekend. I began to realize the true meaning of friendship and began to choose the people to fill the empty spaces in my life carefully.

That’s when I met Casi. She was just as new to the city as me, and we hit it off instantly. From our furry boots to our Snuggies (that we both had prior to our meeting) we quickly discovered we have kindred souls. We eat, explore, laugh, talk, tweet, basically do everything together we can. Casi coming into my life is a blessing.

Mariam was my first friend in this big city. Her unconditional friendship is unlike any other. She is the epitome of “though she be but little, she is fierce.”

Jamie is a firecracker. Her limitless energy rivals that of any amount of caffeine consumption possible. Her friendship is ever-giving and her laughter is addictive. But she has a soft heart and has been a key player in encouraging me to define what growing up means to me.

I have met some incredible and absolutely amazing women while out here in San Francisco. Women who define the idea of following dreams and making each and every one of them come true.

I never did get that tattoo, but I’m still considering it.

And no matter how long I live in San Francisco, I will always be loyal to my Broncos, Rockies, Nuggets and Avalanche.

I spent Christmas in Jamaica and “spring break” on a Mexican Riviera cruise, but my heart was always left in San Francisco.

One of the most important lessons I’ve learned in San Francisco is that even though I am single, I am not alone. My life before my move consisted of a lot of things – one of which was a dire need to have someone, anyone, in my life to make me feel complete. I was too afraid to be by myself, thinking that I’d never find what truly made me happy. Now, I’ve learned never to settle – no matter what – and to love myself and my life just the way it is. To get out of my own damn way and just let it happen. And that my life, just the way it is, is exactly where I am supposed to be.

My dad and stepmom came to visit, followed by my grandparents, then my bestie, my brother, and last but not least my mom. Finally, I was able to share some of San Francisco’s magic with the people closest to me.

I count my blessings every day as I’m walking to work, for the true gift of loving my job. It’s granted me the

opportunity to learn about business and life and trust in a working environment that I never thought possible. I

have learned so much from Context Optional, and I can’t wait to see what else the brilliant people there can teach me – what we can teach each other. And of course, I’m still working on perfecting the work/life balancing act.

I still dream big. I wouldn’t be me if I didn’t. But living in this amazing place – alive in this city of strangers andfriends; anything is possible.

I still pinch myself, trying to wake up from this dream of a life I’ve created (and have been blessed with). I am, and forever will be, learning, living, loving, and breathing in all this extraordinary city by the bay has to offer.

Thank you, San Francisco. For an amazing year and many more to come.

 
Make sure to check out my Two Year recap here: Two Years

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26 Comments

  1. Happy 1-year! :)

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    • Thanks! It’s been an incredible year and I’m so excited for the years to come!

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  2. I literally shed a tear! I’m so happy we have both made it through our one year San Francisco anniversary! I still can’t believe we moved here on the same day, both have snuggies, and enjoy kicking butt at Yahtzee!

    We are the perfect match since you will not be stealing my boyfriend, Edward. If you ever get to have Jacob all to yourself, I just ask for permission to touch his abs once!

    Love you new BFF! Thanks San Francisco for bringing us together!

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      • You can have Edward – I’m happy with my gorgeous Jacob.

        And ditto: Thanks San Fran! Couldn’t feel any luckier. ;)

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  3. Happy SanFranniversary!

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    • Thanks, Adam! To think, we started talking a little over a year ago :)

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  4. What a great post, it serves as a wonderful recap of your year in San Francisco but also as a recap of all your great posts over the last year. Kudos!

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    • Thanks, Jeremy. I can’t believe how many posts there were to choose from! This year has definitely been a busy one – full of wonderful things to write about.

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  5. Now I don’t have to go back and read the whole site! I’ll start here =} soo happy Casi found someone she can love as much as Edward and I! But you’ve got stiff competition. Happy 1 year!

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    • Aww, GG! I’m pretty glad I met you, too. You keep my brainstorming fresh :)

      Thanks for sharing Casi!!!

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  6. Congrats and happy anniversary! ;-) I just know you and SF have so much more to look forward to (and I can’t wait to read/hear all about it!)

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    • Thanks, Kaci! I can’t wait for you to come visit! (Can we get something on the calendar already???)

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  7. This was amazing to read…I love going back on this wonderful 1 year journey with you! You did it…one whole year in your big city! You created a beautiful reality! XOXO

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    • Thanks, bestie!

      We’ve both had crazy incredible years and I couldn’t be more proud of everything you’ve accomplished, too! I’m so glad we’ve remained just as close as ever despite the big changes in our lives. That’s what friendship is all about!!

      xoxo

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  8. Lulu-
    I’m sooo blessed to have you in my life! It’s amazing how you’ve grown and what you’ve accomplished in this past year. I can’t wait to see what this next year brings!
    – Juju

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    • JuJu, you’re awesome. This year would not have been the same without you! So excited for the years to come :)

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  9. Lor – I can’t believe it’s been a whole year since you moved from Colorado. You have become an incredible young woman with so much to offer. I am so proud of you. You have accomplished so much at such a young age. I know only bigger and better opportunities will come your way – because you are now controlling your own destiny. I wish nothing but happiness for you in everything you do. I miss you and live vicariously through you daily. I always look forward to our phone calls and updates as to what’s going on in your life. Keep it up – the sky’s the limit for you. XXOO

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    • Thank you! This means so much to me. Your encouragement throughout the past year has been so uplifting. I’m so excited for what the next few years will bring me — and you can keep living vicariously through me :)

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  10. Lauren,
    I finally had a chance to sit down at the computer again. As you know, your brother was just here for a week and while the beach weather wasn’t perfect we still had a great time. He also was able to enjoy time with some friends he made here last summer. I loved reading your review of the past year. You have accomplished much more in the past year than most people your age. I continue to see a maturity level way past your chronological age. We always knew you would follow your dreams with such determination. You have many more “doors” to open in the coming years. We love you and are very, very, proud of you.
    Love, Yaya

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    • Thank you for all of your support this past year! It has been great having so many people encourage and support me. Without that encouragement, I may have had a completely different experience! Thank you!

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  11. Lauren–
    This is a BEAUTIFUL entry, complete with links to the most important entries of the last year–must have taken FOREVER to get it just right. That said, you succeeded in getting it just right.
    Well written, inspirational and quite insightful. I had hoped to find myself in the same situation you are, but alas have not. Your journey over the past year has re-inspired me to get to gettin on mine!

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    • THANK YOU! I’m so glad you liked it, and the links were definitely a challenge… It was awesome looking back on this past year through my posts, and it was very difficult to pick only the “best” posts from the year! It’s been a wonderful year in San Francisco.

      I hope you ARE inspired! Go live :)

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  12. Lo,
    Your words “…is exactly where I am supposed to be.” prove that you know the great secret of life. I watch in awe of you to see the how your story unfolds, walking the experiences of your life with you through your words and pictures. I know you will always be happy, and that makes me happy!! Please keep sharing your gifts with us.
    Love energy to you,
    Mama Kate

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  13. Just going through your blog for the first time, Lauren, and found this in your “Start Here” sidebar. This weekend is my one year SF-versary! This line spoke to me in your blog: I was no longer driving my car everywhere, I wasn’t eating fast food, and I wasn’t bored doing the same thing every weekend. SO true!! I’m skinnier, healthier, happier in SF. I live and breath this city! I’m really excited to meet you in person at the paint party on the 24th (or before)! xoxo

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    • Ahh, I’m so glad you liked the post! I can’t wait to meet you, too :)

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